A Little Depressed

A about a month or so ago I actually said these words to a friend of mine, this person and me have never actually met in person we have just interacted over social media of all types and have formed this friendship. I say this purely to show that you don't have to meet someone... Continue Reading →


Family The Chosen Kind

A few weeks ago I wrote about my dad's family and how much things have changed and how I really wouldn't be the person I am today because of them. A very very good friend of mine recently sent this message to myself and another one of our friends. It touched me a lot. You... Continue Reading →

Happy 1 Year Anniversary

Wow how time flies when you are having fun, looking at gorgeous men, listening to music, dating and having break downs. I think I have covered everything I have wrote about in the last year. The fact that I am still doing this 12 months on from when I begun is crazy to me, I... Continue Reading →

Dissecting I am American

I have been listening this song a lot over the last few weeks because its pretty great. It's not my all time favourite RuPaul song but the lyrics each Queen added to the track really has add a personal touch to the song a makes it resonate with me. [Verse 1: Aquaria] Bonjour! Curtains up... Continue Reading →


I had my aunties wedding a couple weeks ago, a time to bring my highly dysfunctional lovely beautiful family together. I know some of my family read this and I love them for it. I don’t share anything on here I wouldn’t share with them if/when they asked. Yes I cover topics that they probably... Continue Reading →

Another Award

I'm sorry if the title sounds like I am ungrateful but I really couldn't think of another title in the sleep deprived delirium and the fact I just used those words in my state surprises me. First of all thank you to Miiesche for nominating for this award. You should head over and give the... Continue Reading →


A recent post by a fellow blogger friend of mine Millennial Gay called Yay Sports, got me thinking and may have re-inspired my faith in dating someone who isn’t into sports. You should head over and read his blog. In my history of dating it’s been increasingly difficult to find someone that either A) has... Continue Reading →

Bloggers Award

This is a new award I received the Nomination from a new follower Mercy Swu you should head over and check her out. Story about how my blog started, well it really started for me wanting an outlet for thoughts in my head and then kind of steam rolled from there. I have found that I... Continue Reading →


I'm going to apologize  for this post in advance it's a bit of a rant but please bare with me. If one more person says to me "it will be fine you'll get something soon" or "it will happen when it's meant to" or "you'll get the next one". I may just punch them in... Continue Reading →

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